Thursday, September 5, 2013
It's about the people
As you read through the posts below you will see the following over and over:
LOVE - FRIENDS - PRAY - RELATIONSHIPS - PRESENCE - JOY - MUSIC - CELEBRATION - BLESSING - PEOPLE.
The final word is "GO!". Josh said it best when he said "Please go".
Peace and Blessing to all of you and thank you for your ongoing prayers and financial support. There is a team that goes to Malawi but in reality the team is the Ankeny FUMC. In the finest Methodist tradition " Praise God from Whom All Blessings Flow".
Dennis
Tuesday, September 3, 2013
Malawi 2013
Josh Matics
Saturday, August 31, 2013
First time for everything
Cherann B.
To God be the Glory
It's really been a huge blessing to have been a part of this partnership and something much more than I can't even understand. Everything that I've done and everyone that I have bonded with in Malawi with always be a part of my life and that is something that will stay with me forever. That is a huge thing to think about because I have things and ideas and messages that I can hold on to and share with the world.
My favorite message from Africa, is to always put forth the effort to make a change, even of it wil be tough, because something bigger than this world can be the result of your actions. "God is good. Praise the Lord. To God be the glory. Halleluia, Amen." These are words that I will take from my Malawian family and share with the world around me. This has really been the trip of a lifetime. ~Anne Marie
I miss Malawi.
I miss the nature, I miss the animals, I miss the simplicity, but most of all I miss the people.
Never in my wildest dreams would I imagine that I would miss the people so much, but those little kids.. I cant even find the words to tell you all what an impact they had on me.
I want to be back,
and I know I will find my way back to Africa for a much longer period of time... its just a matter of getting through school and finding the funds.
On my first post I said that this was just the beginning, the first chapter, the first few stamps in my passport.
Because Africa, or any 3rd world country in need, is home.
I pray for the well being of all of those living in Malawi.
I hope to return to see them soon.
Much love,
Mallory Petsche
Friday, August 30, 2013
I want what they have!
and commitments. Life does not get in their way and I really think their set priorities better than we do! I want the time to share my joy for life. I want to be able to dance and sing to show my love for God and not be afraid what people of thinking. I want what they have. Thank you Malawi
Friday, August 9, 2013
Ministry of Presence
I've wrestled with those questions before and after each trip with our Malawi mission team. In a results-oriented culture, our brains are trained to measure the impact of a mission trip in buildings built, walls painted and boreholes dug. By those measures, everyone of our Malawi teams has failed miserably.
We haven't dug any boreholes, but we've visited several that our church has funded. We haven't built anything, but we've visited churches, a tailoring school, a solar water pump and several other structures our church has funded. We haven't painted any walls, but half of us did fertilize some crops for half an afternoon this year. (If you're a certain member of our group, you find bottoms of doors that catch on the floor, leaks in PVC pipes that need to be sealed and other miscellaneous projects that need to be done.)
By those measures, we don't really do anything on the Malawi mission trip. We did do two three-hour sessions of Bible school and provide a meal for the children--although we just bought the ingredients, we didn't even cook it. But even those two days of Bible school don't count for much when measured by the "spreading the gospel" definition of mission trips. It was maybe 100 kids and 30 adults--that's only about 8 people per team member.
And somehow, the impact of the trip is far greater than anything we can do.
Rev. Daniel Mhone describes the partnership between AFUMC and the Malawi UMC as a Ministry of Presence--and that is exactly what we do on this trip.
Think about the single person that has had the greatest impact on your life. The person who helped you turn your life around or the person that brought you back to church after wandering away. Think about the spouse or mother or father or grandparent who taught you what it means to love and what it feels like to be loved.
If the United Methodist Social Principles did not discourage gambling, I would bet they did one thing above all else:
They were present in your life.
When you hit bottom, they were there. When you failed a test in high school, they were there. When you got married, they were there. When you needed advice or someone to turn to, they were there.
That is what we do. We go. We visit villages. We visit old friends. We participate in a tailoring school graduation, in a church service and Bible study, in a cooking demonstration. We disconnect from Facebook, from Twitter, from the trivial things in life. We might stay in contact with home, but during the day, we are fully present. And when we go, we bring the presence of an entire congregation with us. It's not really us and our team that go, it is the love and the prayers of an entire church.
I don't know the verse, but it constantly comes to my mind, "Wherever two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am also." When we are present, when we allow ourselves to listen to God and go, when we join together with our brothers and sisters in Christ in Malawi, God is present.
The thing about a Ministry of Presence is that it's not about making God present in the lives of the people from Malawi. It's about making Him present in all our lives. God's love is not debits and credits. If I give you X love and you give me Y, I don't have Y - X and you don't have X - Y. Somehow love gets multiplied. We both come back with far more than we gave ourselves.
So if you want to know how you can experience Malawi without going, do your best to be present in all you do. Don't multitask. Do your best to be fully engrossed in the lives of the people you love. Be present, and God will be there also.
I did my best to bring home enough presence for everyone. I hope you don't mind if I didn't have time to wrap it.
Phil
Sunday, August 4, 2013
2%
We were asked to put our own words into a “Final Blog” as we’ve now safely returned home. I can’t possibly get everything into mine, as I’d want to include most of the 46 pages from my personal journal I wrote for my own family. I don’t want everyone’s eyes to gloss over from that.
I thought Pastor John’s last blog from August 2nd (“Still Work to Do”) simply put, probably captured the feelings of most of us on the team. If now meeting another team member and asking “How’s it going?” I seem to feel their answers from the look in their eyes before they speak. I get it…
I think we all FEEL somewhat the same from our experience, and it’s really hard to just put into words. We’re back 98% into our everyday lives, but that last 2% still hasn’t yet processed. That 2% is the love and hospitality of Reverend Copeland and his family, the other Methodist families, Lester and the progress at the Farm, Robert’s hospitality at his Lodge, the wonderful people of Malawi, the countryside beauty, the markets, the poverty everywhere, borehole dedications, chickens, goats, oxen, and baboons. That 2% is the daily devotions, team laughter, “Malawi time”, “Sure” (from Dennis) and the music. My gosh, the music. Whether a spontaneous duet on the bus from Melody mixing with our brothers from Malawi, song in the Churches, Kayesa Lodge, or wherever. I already miss someone asking me every day “Where did you see God today?” The looks from children, whether they’re making bracelets in Bible School, lined up to see these strange looking folks visiting their orphanages, or seeing their face on a picture for the first time. These are just a tiny bit of the 2% we’ve brought back with us to Iowa and our families.
I love these memories God has created for me, and letting me spend two weeks mixed with an incredible group of like-minded Christians. Thanks again to the 15 new friends I've made from the team, and for allowing me to spend two weeks with you in mission.
I hope our team is able to share many, many of their own memories with everyone back here at home. Hopefully, some of their stories may inspire the next group of folks from our church to make a trip this coming year. Seriously, God’s work IS being done in Malawi because of your donations, prayers, and time. This work is best viewed with your own eyes. If you can’t make it for one reason or another, please consider sending your prayers or support to someone that can.
Peace,
Bob DeMayFriday, August 2, 2013
Still work to do...
Wednesday, July 31, 2013
HOME AGAIN, HOME AGAIN
2012 The first crop was harvested. A house was built for the farm manager.
Saturday, July 27, 2013
Getting closer
(S & H - Muli Bwanji?)
Peace,
Dennis
Friday, July 26, 2013
One down... Three to go...
We are doing fine. No problems with flight from Lilongwe to Johannesburg. In Johannesburg now. We will be back online in the morning.
Peace and blessings.
Dennis
Thursday, July 25, 2013
The good, the bad and the ugly
Crocodiles and hippos and elephants, Oh My!
(S&H - Happy Hall of Fame weekend.)
Peace,
Dennis
Wednesday, July 24, 2013
Routine
Dennis
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
Emotional day
Monday, July 22, 2013
Experiencing Malawi; Experiencing God
I know some of my teammates have already blogged about our inspiring stay with Joyce and her staff at Kayesa Inn; about the astonishing progress at the farm and the exciting two days of Bible school with both adults AND children; about the hope and pride we experienced along with the families of the Hope Tailoring School graduates; the uplifting time of Bible study and worship with the UMC in Mzuzu; and the success of pairing with those same church members to cook and share a huge potluck of Malawian and American dishes. At every turn of this journey, we have met, embraced, and then had to say 'good-bye' to these new friends. In America, I know that I struggle with opening myself enough to accept new friendships.. I tend to make acquaintances easily, but then keep those potential relationships at a safe arms-length. Hopefully, that is one of the changes that Malawi will make in me! On this journey I am learning to be real, learning to offer more than just a smile, handshake or hug, and learning to accept the love of God that we share when we accept the friendship of others.
Today, many pieces of my Malawi experience began to come together... We began the day by meeting the new class of students at the Hope Tailoring School. I immediately bonded with one woman in particular who has three children, similar in age to my own three. Her husband died six years ago and she has been struggling to take care of them. When she talks about being in the school, and about becoming a seamstress so that she can take care of her family, you can see both hope and excitement shinning in her eyes! When she hugs me tight and a smile spreads across her face as a camera is pointed our way, you can feel the bonds of sisterhood forming between us! When she and her fellow classmates break into song to express their joy and thankfulness for the opportunities they have been given, you can imagine that this is what heaven will be like! And when a tear trickles down my face as our bus begins to pull away, I believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that God has brought us together, and that His will is being done!
Our day continued by traveling to an area outside of Mzuzu where over 3,000 people have very limited access to water. There are only 5 bore holes in this entire area, and even they are too far from some of the villages. We visited two sites there - one where we have financed repairs needed for one of the bore holes, and another where we hope to be digging a new bore hole soon. We heard the story today of how this location for a new bore hole came to be discovered.. which can only be attributed to divine providence. It was summed up in this way: "God told Copeland, Copeland told Dennis, and here we are." We drove through very rugged terrain up into the hilly part of Northern Malawi, then walked a ways beyond that to get to this location. It was beautiful! A majestic mountain peeking up from the grasslands surrounding it - but no water except for the shallow, still waters that remained from the rainy season - water that infected many if the villagers with dysentery last year. One of the village leaders said, "It is only by the grace of God that we are still alive." It was also in this location today that we met a father on bicycle, returning from the hospital with his young son who is sick with Malaria. In both of these situations, my heart breaks for them and for their needs. In both situations, we surrounded them in the moments we were together with our love and our prayers. And because of these and every other situation and experience we've encountered in Malawi, we will be humbled and amazed and grateful and open and hopeful and loving and changed.. at least, that is my hope.
And the more I get to know my fellow teammates, that is what I sense. We've had nights like the one at Kayesa Inn when listening to Joyce share her story with us led to a time of real and honest sharing with each other; nights when asking, "Where did you see God today?" led to spiritual discoveries about God's will and about our roles in it; and nights like tonight when hearty laughter and Fanta fun remind us of the joy that comes from being in relationship. Some of us came to Africa to make these discoveries. But I'm not sure that these are discoveries and experiences that are limited to being here... My prayer for myself and my fellow teammates is that we will bring these discoveries home with us and make these changes a permanent part of our lives! My prayer for you is that you will be open to the Malawi experiences in your own life - those opportunities to lavish love on your friends and family, and even strangers; to pray with and pray over and pray for all those you meet who need God's blessing; to encourage children AND adults, especially women, to pursue an education and to live up to their full potentials; to be humble and grateful for what you have, and to be content with 'enough' and not wasteful; and to be open for the ways that God wants to use you to bring His kingdom on earth.
To my family - I love you all so much, and thank you for your love and encouragement in my life! It has been a double blessing for me that I have been able to share these experiences with Anne Marie!! Hopefully that means we will be bringing back twice as much of our experiences to share with all of you.
With love and blessings,
Melody
Why we come . . .
The answers and motivations are different, but in the end, the reason is the same: To be changed.
Before I my first trip, I had gained the mistaken impression that Africa and Malawi needed to be fixed. And then I came. Though poverty is all around and every person's story is filled with heartache; it's not Africa that is broken.
It was me.
I had wandered away from church and slowly back again. I was searching for a faith that gave me peace. Malawi began to shift my perspective just over two years ago. Last year I shared the experience with the most important person in my life.
Malawi can be summed up as this: Infinite faith in the face of impossible odds.
Every time I come here, I am reminded of all the blessings I do not deserve and that God has given me anyway. I look the most faithful people I have known in the eyes and must face the fact that, despite I have been given, I have done little. I pray that I might some day use a fraction of my talents to bring a fraction of the amount of glory to God I see in the people every day.
I come because family is here. A brother and sister in Hastings and Alice. My niece Jaydiel. Their lives inspire and strengthen me each day. Knowing Allie and I are in their prayers has encouraged us the past year.
To God be the glory. Amen.
Phil
PS - Allie, I can't wait to see you. Mom & Dad / Mark & DeAnn, thank you for all your love and support. Jim & Sara, I can't wait to see how big my "real" niece is getting. Drew, never forget the ways Malawi changed you.
Mom, tell Grandma V. I love her. I think Africa is sending some elephants to greet her in heaven.
....speechless
Love Kaylin
It was a four chicken day
Part one...
The team has been getting a long very well. At this point I would consider us family. Laughter is a constant part of the day, and there is hardly ever a moment of silence. I am very thankful for each one of them, and I hope that the friendships we are making are those that will last a very long time. Pineaple Fanta.
Time here moves very diffrently. I feel like I have been here for months when its only been a week. At the same time each day goes by very fast. The people here see time diffrently much diffrently then we do back home. They are not as caught up with a scdule and being on time, but instead they are much more concerned about the people they are talking too and the current task at hand. It is a much less stressful way of doing things.
Robin just brought out chocalate, so I think I am going to have to finish this blog entry tomorow. I am sorry for all the spelling and grammer mistakes... I have no spell check.
Sorry this took so long.
Love you all,
Mallory Petsche
Holy Crazy Mission
Sunday, July 21, 2013
Random.
anyway... Africa has been amazing!! More than amazing actually. Ive created more relationships than i could ever imagine. This trip so far has just been so changing for me, an internal change. i dont or haven't really showed it much but its there. Change is hard and seeing and doing what we see and do here is a change i cant control. Its an overwhelming forever change. Today we attended church and then had an American/Malawian exchange potluck. (Most of the team didn't get any of the food we made (that was a HUGE hit)or any of the food that they made.) Because we didn't eat much if any food at the potluck the team went to dinner. We went to A1. I had pizza there that was very good. It was a change from the daily (mealy) food; chicken, rice,chips and nsema. (Grandma when i get back do not PLEASE do not make or take me anything or anywhere that i have to get or would order that food!!!) HA!!
Well right now i am in Kaylin and Cherann's (hope i spelled it right) room with Anne Marie and they are wanting to go to bed. Well Kaylin wants to go to bed and Cherann is already dead asleep.... thats why i couldnt ask how to spell her name... or she is just ignoring me and hoping ill type faster and then go back to my own room. haha
Cherann let me use her computer cause i already (of course) broke my phone. What luck, right?? HAHA.
So all in all i am doing good. I miss home and my grandma VERY much but i LOVE this trip and all my team members.... my family. Im already planning with some of them things that we are going to do and change for next year (: CANT WAIT!!(:
While it is about 5:30pm for you all its about 12;30 here so i better go back to my room and journal and soon get to sleep i hear tomorrow and Tuesday are big days and i am so excited! i hope everyone there is good and things are going well. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I miss all my friends and my family. You all really are my support. My solid ground!! For that i thank you.
Be back soon- HaleyStar(:
P.S-- sorry for the spelling/grammar error, i dont have grandma to go over it and proof read it. hahahaha.
Goodnight<3
6 Days Left
- Cherann B.
We saw monkeys!
our guests so the team went to our favorite Indian restaurant for dinner. All in all, a wonderful afternoon of building relationships and renewing friendships. Back to the lodge to organize gifts, etc. for the two villages we will visit tomorrow. I continue to be filled with joy with the team this year. Each year we get better and better at this. Each year we experience a host of amazing experiences, most of them unanticipated. This is a "team" in the truest sense of the word. No complaining, always stepping up to help and never hesitating to share the Word at every opportunity. Sometimes that is by word and sometimes by action but it is always inspiring to see. It generally only takes a couple days to experience the "now I get it" moment and this year was no exception. The next "Malawi Moment" is "How am I going to explain this experience when I get home?" No one has ever been able to answer that question. Maybe this time. Tomorrow brings a visit to the tailoring school, two villages and the University of Mzuzu. Who knows what else. There will almost certainly be something(s). Peace and Blessings to all. I noticed we are getting about 400 page views a day so we do know you are out there and following this amazing adventure. Thank you for that. (S & H - Como esta?)
Dennis
God is good. All the time.
Today we had a potluck where American plates and Malawi plates were made. This is a great event where the two cultures intermix. I can't describe in detail the trip at this time but we'll expand on the great progress we have seen from one year ago.
Thank you for your prayers and thoughts.
God bless,
Len
Saturday, July 20, 2013
8 Days
unexpected consequences
Dennis
Fabric, Fabric, and more fabric
Everyday has been appsolutly amazing and I can't wait for the rest of the week! Tomorrow especially when we get to go to church and have our cooking exchange! There plenty more I can add but Im pretty tired for now so ask me later :)
Love Kaylin
Only Seven Days In
To Randi- I miss you dearly and this trip could have only been better if you were by my side. Many stories and pictures to share with you when I return. I love you and can't wait to see you.
Brooklyn- Daddy misses you so much. We will watch plenty of Sesame Street when I come home. Snuggle up close to mommy in my spot at night. You will be getting plenty of chin kisses when I see you. (Randi, you'll obviously have to read this part to Brookie).
Family- Thank you for all your support and prayers. Remember our team and remember the people of Malawi. I miss you all and can't wait to see you in a couple of weeks.
Josh
I Love This Team
Not only am I getting to make relationships in Africa, but also with the team. That really does make all the difference. They sure make fun of me a lot.... But I know we're all just having fun. So, just now John Wagner was saying what he learned about us on the trip. "I've learned that Mallory debates! I've learned that Anne ........... I've learned that Josh plays the guitar!" Perfect example =/ Haha I love this team.
It makes me really happy to have people to talk to and relate to that are on the other side of the world with me. We're all experiencing the same things, but in our own way. That's pretty neat. I'd like everyone back home to pray for our time here as a family and as the Lord's faithful servants. That we all get the love and faith out of this mission trip that God so desparately wants us to have. Africa has been a blessing to me. It's life changing.
John playing the guitar right now in the lodge. And even though he says that he's practicing and not playing because it doesn't sound good, it sets the mood for a beautiful night. I guess ir's time for bed, but I will sleep with the prayers of my thankfulness and love for this team/ family. For the opportunity God has made sure that I would experience. Halleluia! Amen!
God bless <3
Anne Marie
Friday, July 19, 2013
Are you a Pastor? No, but I did stay at a Kayesa Inn once . . .
You can only imagine
Thursday, July 18, 2013
Another day at the farm...
Today was Day 2 of Bible School and it was another huge success with children and adults. It is cool to see everyone participating!
The morning started with a Bible story, skit, Partnership of Hope choir, crafts and outdoor fun. Next up, a small group of the team met with Lester, the farm manager, to review farm production, planning and budgeting. The rest of the team fed the Bible School kids and had lunch. We were entertained by two dance groups from the villages. Kaylin did a presentation about the importance of education to boys and girls. Melody and Roslea also spoke. Their presentations were followed by a Q & A by church members. That was a first time for that! It was a great exchange!
Now to Pam...
We all know how much Pam has meant to the farm and to the church. But we had NO idea! The speeches about how she always went the extra mile and how she became a true Malawian made us proud! More about Pam when we return. Way to go, Pam!!!
We returned back to the Kayesa Inn this evening for devotions, discussions and dinner.
Loved ones - PLEASE no chicken or rice when we return. (We are eating it at every meal!)
Tomorrow - a six hour bus ride to Mzuzu and a whole other set of adventures for the next several days.
The posts will become more frequent and lengthy starting tomorrow as we've been without internet access while at the farm. So, where are these posts coming from? It's a God thing!
As always, thanks for the prayers, support and following us on our journey!
Peace and blessings,
(S&H - stay cool!)
Dennis White
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
TWO Days for the Price of One!
In the morning we went to exchange money, buy water for the bus and gas for the bus and amazingly that took all morning! We were very late getting to the farm so the program was postponed until the next day. The welcome at the farm was beyond imagination. We parked in front of the new church and walked past the new storage building to the new water tower for the solar pump system. The size and scope was remarkable - four 5,000 liter tanks that fill in six hours! Several climbed to the top to enjoy the view and get a better perspective on how much land can be irrigated. That evening, we returned to Kayesa Inn where our usual chicken, rice and chips (French fries) dinner was followed by the question, "Where did you see God today?" and devotions. Progress at the farm continues to amaze! Clearly God is at work here through Lester and Edward.
Day 2:
After months of preparation for Bible School, the big day was finally here! We arrived at the farm to find a handful of people to greet us. Turns out everyone was inside the church! We expected 200 kids and had 30-40 instead. Melody and the gang regrouped and it turned out to be an amazing Bible School. It even included adults - so everyone had a great time! Bible School was preceded by an inspiring and thought-provoking message by Pastor John. We continued outside to play with the kids. Bob had an instant picture camera that drew constant crowds. Lunch was served by the women of the church and was thoroughly enjoyed by everyone. We toured the farm in the afternoon to find Lester and Edward's hard work exceeded expectations by a factor of ten. We returned to the hotel for dinner, conversation and devotions as we were all exhausted by our humbling day.
The team is healthy and doing great! When you spend 24/7 together, you bond pretty quickly.
Keep the prayers coming! We have a long way to go.
S & H - "Dikomo for a great vacation!"
Peace and blessings,
Dennis
Tuesday, July 16, 2013
I Now Understand
To my wife and family-- Made it. Amazing so far. Doing great. Love you all.
Josh
Monday, July 15, 2013
Shake Up!
We arrived safely and on time in Lilongwe to be greeted by Copeland, pastor of the Mzuzu UMC. While the team had been told we were going to the hotel, we actually went to Chilembwe UMC where the borehole sponsored by the Lenox UMC had been drilled.
The welcome from the church members and people of the village was amazing... typical of our usual village welcomes. It was an exciting and emotional afternoon as we dedicated the borehole on behalf of the Lenox church. It was a great beginning for everyone and especially for those who have not been to Malawi before!
The next surprise of the day was dinner at the home of Ossman Nkhata, the new pastor in Bethel. We all enjoyed great food and great company!
We ended the day with everyone answering the question, "Where did you see God today?" We all agreed we saw Him everywhere!
Tomorrow we are off to the farm. We will begin planning farm projects for next year and will take a tour of the farm with Lester. This has become an annual tradition for the team.
Peace and blessings to everyone.
Dennis
Sunday, July 14, 2013
Almost there
Dennis
Saturday, July 13, 2013
Safe and sound
Dennis
God is good
Safely in Chicago, Lengthy check-in in Des Moines but all's well that ends well. The most amazing part? We were told in no uncertain terms that we would have to pay the $100 bag fee for each 2nd bag. Here's the God part - when they started printing bag tags it came up both bags no charge! Saved us a cool $1500. Everyone's relaxing and eating breakfast as we have a long wait in ORD. Peace and love to everyone. "See" you in Dulles.Dennis
Friday, July 12, 2013
Different Kind of Mission Trip
I'm honestly really nervous because I don't want to say the wrong thing or be too tired to do something. I guess there's really nothing I need to worry about because I know that God will be with me through the whole trip. He will be making sure that everything will be amazing and that I will grow a strong Christian in these next two weeks.
I'm also really excited because I've been needing a way to redirect my thoughts and my feelings so that I can stay focused on what is important: God. I am hoping that my experiences in Africa will be the boost I need. I'm sure the relationships I will make will be way beyond anything I could ever imagine. And that is a wonderful thing to think about!
Love,
Anne Marie
Last Minute...
But I finally got everything packed by about ten thirty, got it all weighed and once again was like two pounds over. We rearranged things and took things out, and oncce we finally got it down to 48lbs mom said we couldnt put anything else back in it. Because last year I was underweight before she went to bed and I may have snuck a couple extra things I thought I may have needed, but in reality didn't and by the time we ended up at the airport my suitcase was two pounds heavier then it should have been. By the time you read this one too mom just know I may have snuck a couple more things in. Hope its not over weight again :)
Enough about all that stuff, but I can just say Im super excited right now and I can garenty I will pull an all nighter. At 4:10 am I will have been awake for twenty four hours straight. This is only like the third time I have ever done this and maybe that means Ill just sleep alot on the plane.
So last year when I went I really had no idea why I was really going. It was an opportunity that had come up in conversations between my mom and I on Sunday mornings sitting in the pew at church reading through the bullitin. I had been on many other trips with the youth groups to different places like Tennessee and Oklahoma. Thinking that this would just be a new experience and getting out of the country as well.
When I got there I quickly realized when I stepped out of the Airport in Lilongwe that this was in no way, shape, or form some sort of "normal" mission trip where we build things. This was all about building relationships, and building long lasting ones. I am pleased to say I will be returning to my home away from home and my second family in just a matter of a few short hours.
One girl who had a big impact on me and I have been keeping in touch with is Elvin. She is the daughter of Pastor Copeland. It all started at a simple dinner with Copeland's family and the team, and she came up to me and asked me for my number and my email, and if we could be friends. Now that was a first for me too, I had never really had anyone come straight out and ask me if we could be friends. I always assumed if you are kinds to one another, and you get along then you would consider yourself friends. The rest of this story will be gladly explained at another time and have way more added to it in the next two weeks I am sure. But for now it would be way to long because I could go on and on.
But to go further then that from the first time you shake hands with anyone you are condsidered brother or sister in thier eyes. I hope that God opens the hearts of every one new going this year along with everyone who has already been to see the amazing love that everyone in Malawi gives and showes towards one another and try and bring some back with you. Because once you feel an experience that sort of love and friendship, and then you come back to America where we are not used to that its really discuriging and hard to hold onto. I think thats one thing that over the past year I can say I have really missed the most of and really lack in my own life as well trying to show just even close to the same amount of love towards family, friends, and even strangers that I was shown.
Now I could keep going with some more cool stories but I said I wasn't going to be able to write this much like when I looked at everyone elses and it was like really long. However I can say another favorite part of my days in Malawi is at the end of the day when we come together and do devotions and journal, and answer the question "where did you see God today". Sometimes it almost gets to be an overwhelming question because you can point him out in almost every activitiy you did and in almost every face you see.
I was just thinking about how when I keep saying well Im not going to keep going on or Im going to keep it short cause I can't think of a lot to say. Its almost like over there when someone gives a talk or a speech and they say inconclusion but then its like another five minutes or five paragraphs long. Well thats kind of what I did right here.
But my last thing to say is I want to thank everyone who will be praying for us. Also I would like to thank my Mom and Dad for thier continues support, in not only supporting me finacially but also physically thought showing up to most of the fundraisers we do and helping me orgainze the pop can/ bake sale this year as well. To all the rest of my family and friends you guys have been amazing support as well both finacially and through prayers . I can't wait to bring back many more pictures and stories again. (maybe ill out do last years 800 picture photo album that I put together)
And P.S. mom sorry for all the grammar mistakes again.... and there probably some run on sentences that well made sense to me at the time but won't make sense to anyone else.
Love
Kaylin Ann Lloyd <3